Many of these girls are students from Bangkok and single women from .
Consequentially, the average bar girl’s expectation of a long-term relationship with a “wealthy” foreigner is primarily restricted to the prospect of a steady income from a regular visitor (a.k.a.
sponsor) who provides monthly financial support from abroad. But there’s another famous saying in Pattaya’s bar scene: “It may be easy to get a girl out of a bar but impossible to get the bar out of the girl.” In many cases of love affairs between and former bar girls, this is unfortunately all too true – and a permanent source of interpersonal problems.
In addition, how would you like the idea of having an ex-prostitute as your girlfriend or wife?
For many Western men, the delicate working background of ex-bar girls might also pose a psychological problem.
But where to meet a “normal” Thai girl who has never worked in a bar and isn’t dating you just because you’ve paid her bar fine?
Let’s face it, it can be a little tricky to find a nice Thai lady in a “normal” environment that actually wants to go out with you.Many “normal” Thai women may either shy away from getting chatted up by or may simply not be interested in dating Westerners – also due to social prejudice.Unless you can speak some Thai – a skill which can surely help “melt the ice” in the beginning – the language barrier is often another obstacle when trying to establish contact with a Thai lady in an everyday situation, for example, in a shopping mall or club.Now there’s a genuine alternative for foreign men in search of introduction platforms other than beer bars or Gogo bars.If you wish to date attractive Thai girls and women, most of whom have never worked in the sex trade and might have more serious than just financial ambitions and playing the “sex in exchange for money” game, then dating sites may offer a genuine alternative for you.With Thai women being more internet-savvy and familiar with dating or social networking sites these days, there are now literally tens of thousands of beautiful single Thai women seeking friendship, dating, romance, and possibly marriage with Western men, online rather than by working in a bar – a job that usually comes with extreme social stigma.